Saturday, February 26, 2011

Moral of the Story

Truth is not contingent upon one's belief in it,
altered by the words one chooses to describe it,
or wounded if neglected.
Because in the end, there it is.

Truth stands out clear from error.

O you who believe! Keep your duty to Allah and fear Him, and speak (always) the truth. {Al-Ahzaab 33:70}

Thursday, February 24, 2011

So you think avoiding is the solution?

Here’s an issue that has come up this week. … but first a question: Who are YOU avoiding in your life? Are you avoiding your ex? Are you avoiding an old friend you had an argument with? Have you cut ties with someone in your family?

Do you REALLY believe avoidance is solving your problem?

If you answered yes, think again … I can assure you … all you are doing by avoiding someone is ensuring that you yourself will never have full healing and peace, and you will never have everything you want in life. In fact, I guarantee it.

Fear Builds Walls.

If you are avoiding someone (building walls), you are TERRIFIED. And lest you deceive yourself, let’s make this very clear: your avoidance is not about them. The person you are scared of is YOURSELF. Anything you don’t like in somebody else is nothing more than a projection … of what you hate about yourself.

Yep. That’s the truth. There’s no point arguing with me about this, because it won’t change the reality. If you were truly a fearless person, living your life fully in your strength, always communicating with power and authenticity, living in perfect love, you would not have any reason to avoid ANYONE.

So if you are avoiding someone … if you are avoiding anyone … you have a LONG way to go to reach full empowerment.

Or … you can save yourself years of misery and take the short path … pick up the phone and call the person you’ve been avoiding. Send him or her an email to reconnect. Otherwise, prepare to keep suffering, cuz that’s what will happen if you insist on continuing your avoidance strategies.

This is tough love, folks. It’s time for you to reconnect with exactly the people who most want to avoid. Don’t do it because I said so. Do it because it is the most powerful thing you’ll ever do FOR YOURSELF. Your whole life is going to take a quantum leap in the direction of fulfilling your fondest dreams when you stop avoiding anyone.

I’m working with a man who had mentioned several times that he was upset and frustrated because he kept emailing his ex, and she was not responding to his emails. Yet in the same call, he mentioned that he was not responding to another woman’s communications with him. Why? Because he was judging the woman he was avoiding as “weak.” She “made him uncomfortable.”

Well, I explained a very simple, yet very powerful, concept. Life is a mirror. So when he judges and avoids the woman who “makes him uncomfortable,” he invites other people (like his ex) to do the same thing to him. And he keeps himself unhealed. Because whatever it is he doesn’t like in the woman he is avoiding is something that he hates about himself. If he avoids her, he deprives himself of an opportunity to get clarity and healing for whatever aspect of himself he is not yet accepting. I told him that if he wanted his ex to start communicating, he must start communicating with the woman he was avoiding.

Sure enough, he sent me an email today saying that, almost immediately after he started communicating again with the woman he had been avoiding, his ex stopped avoiding him and responded to his email.

This is karma, folks. And unless you understand how it works, it will bite you in the ass. You won’t understand why your problems are not getting solved because you are not looking where you need to look. In fact, you are AVOIDING exactly the place you need to be exploring.

See what I mean?

Do you see how fast this healing process can happen when you stop avoiding people and face things instead?

The most important thing to realize, and why I repeat it over and over again, is that there is only one person in this world you can hate and avoid: YOURSELF. Do you really want to continue hating and avoiding yourself?

(Article taken from the Internet)

p/s: Okayyy, saya dah taknak avoid sesape dah pasniii -_-"

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Another Brick in the Wall

Hi! I am probably home. I'm just avoiding someone. Leave me a message and if I don't call back, it's you. HAHA

And please dont ever simply barge in the kedai makan while I'm having dinner with friends. Sumpah tak ready lagi weiiii. Seriously.

And don't ask others why I'm avoiding you, instead ask yourself, you'll definitely find the answer. Not sure of it? Ask me personally lahhh! Apa susah sangatt?! Ya Allah..

Last but not least, a couple of words to remember: If a girl starts avoiding you, leave her alone for a while. If you still want to be friends, talk to her. Tapi jangan lah terus attack dia, at least, let her know that you are going to meet her for whatever reason you have. Now that's a smart way to avoid her from running away without a short notice. Tak payah nak "tadaa!" sangatt boleh tak??

Put me in a fight-or-flight situation, my adrenaline will switch the gear to an immediate take off. Bon voyage! Talk to you in 6 months or a year or two, perhaps, insha Allah.


Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Post CNY, teringat Calvin.

Cuti CNY dah habes. Tak payah nak nanges2, tak payah ngada2 nak buat2 demam, tak payah bazir air liur nak merungut2, bagi lah alasan pape pun, in the end, kena balik shah alam jugak! Sighh. Kemalasan melanda diri.

...Minggu ni didedikasikan khas untuk kuiz, assignment, presentations dan meeting.

Semalam ada 3 kuiz. Hari ni ada 1 kuiz, 1 presentation. Besok ada meeting. Pastu assignment lagi, lagi dan lagi. Dan present lah lagi, lagi dan lagi. Terima kasih cikgu!

Now tgh tunggu Mimi habes meeting. Cepatlah habes Mimi oiii. Aku laparrr!

Time stress2 camni, tetiba teringat kat komik Calvin & Hobbes. Korang penah baca tak komik tuu?? Alaa. Yg selalu terpampang kat dalam surat khabar tuu. Yang comel2 tuu. Sape yg tak penah kenal si budak Calvin nii, pasni sila pegi kedai, beli suratkhabar The Star/NST, pastu carik lah dia kat dalam tu okayy! InsyaAllah ada..Kalau malas gi kedai, google sajeee. hehe. Aku kalau dapat suratkhabar, memang terus attack bahagian komik dulu. Dah tak nampak benda lain dahh. Apa jadik kat dalam dunia pun aku tak tau. Teruk kann?? Tetiba terasa nak berubah. Kena start baca paper, dan amek tahu hal2 dunia. Sampai bila nak jadik katak arnab bawah tempurung?? (Eh?? Arnab muat ke kalau nak sumbat bawah tempurung?? Err. Baby arnab boleh kott.)

Tadi masa tgh jawab quiz, teringat this one strip yg aku penah baca. Kelakar kott. Tersengih sorang2 mcm orang gila. Nasib baik takde orang nampak. Ni semua si budak Calvin tu punya pasal! Sengal. Korang baca lah sendiri. Ok bye! :)

Question: What happened in Concord in 1775?

Calvin wrote: Let's be honest. You're asking me about Concord? I rely on the bus driver to find my own house from here. Concord could be on Neptune for all I know. And what happened 220 years ago? I'm a kid. I don't know what's going on NOW. I don't have a shred of context for any of this. It's hopeless, Miss Wormwood, hopeless.

Calvin said: We both try to demoralize each other :D

Terbaik ye Calvin!

Saturday, February 5, 2011

What if...

-As quoted from the movie "Letters to Juliet", 2010.

p/s: Click on the image for a larger view. Hihi.

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Our dying new pet.

Day 1

....a week later....

Kami dah bagi dia minum air yang cukup setiap hari.
Kami limpahkan dia dengan kasih sayang.
Kami tak abaikan dia.
tetapi, mengapa....

Sobsss! :'(

Please, ya Allah... Please bring it back to life.. Don't let it die.
I wanna wake up to another morning smiling seeing it blooms again.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Let's make dua'

For our brothers & sisters in Egypt.